Silence is golden; duct tape is silver.

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"Guard my mouth, O Eternal One; control what I say. Keep careful watch on every word I speak." (Psalm 141:3, The Voice)

In yesterday's post, I talked about God's shielding our heads as a helmet to help us make good decisions in times of crisis. Because I invite comments, a couple of people mentioned that the helmet should come with a mouthpiece to control our words. I had to chuckle when I moved on to Psalm 141 this morning and found the words in verse 3.

Words cannot be "un-said." Apologies can be offered. Clarifications can be attempted. Thankfully, grace and forgiveness can be granted. But, wounds heal slowly and rebuilding violated trust is really, really hard work.

If our words were more thoughtful and prayerful, they might be less hurtful.

Question: What situations present the most difficulty for you to control your words? How will you pray in those times?

Leave a comment below. I'd love to hear your perspective.

How do I choose the right words?

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I said, “I will watch my ways and keep my tongue from sin;I will put a muzzle on my mouth while in the presence of the wicked.” (Psalm 39:1, New international Version)

Sometimes our best witness for Christ may be in what we do NOT say ... or tweet ... or post on Facebook.

However, silence should not necessarily be our last word (no pun intended). The Psalm continues:

"So I remained utterly silent, not even saying anything good. But my anguish increased; my heart grew hot within me. While I meditated, the fire burned; then I spoke with my tongue" (verses 2-3)

It is a very good thing to determine not to sin with our words, but to not even say anything good does not accomplish the purposes of God.

Let's pray today for wisdom, grace, and self-control as we speak and reveal the character of Jesus in each circumstance.

Question: What is your biggest challenge when it comes to your words (spoken or written)?

Leave a comment below.  I'd love to hear your thoughts.